Tanned skin, sun-bleached hair, and bodies to die for – it’s no wonder surfers make better lovers! They are fun, carefree, and always up for a new adventure. However, their first love is, and always will be, the ocean. So, what’s it really like dating a surfer?
Dating a surfer is fun and exciting. You can expect long days at the beach, going on the best holidays and trips, and a low-maintenance partner that’s passionate, brave, patient, laid-back, and independent. But you must be prepared for unpredictable schedules and the dangers of surfing.
Although impossible not to be attracted to these laid-back risky hunks, there’s a lot more to dating them. Continue reading for an inside scoop on the perks, downsides, and honest truth of what it’s like to date a surfer.
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Why Do People Believe That Surfers Make Better Lovers?
Set your eyes toward the ocean and consider falling in love with someone who rides the waves. Although each person offers unique traits, surfers all share the same passion and have a few things in common.
Here’s why people believe surfers make the best lovers.
1. Physical Fitness
Chasing mavericks sure has its perks for a surfer’s physique. They are notoriously fit, healthy, and undeniably hot. The likelihood of being disappointed when you see your surfing partner in the buff for the first time is, err, zero!
From strong, toned abs, legs, and glutes, virtually every part of a surfer’s body gets a solid workout when surfing.
2. Connection To Nature
Surfing is so much more than a mere sport or recreational pastime. It works as physical and mental therapy, allowing surfers to feel grounded and connected to nature.
They understand weather patterns, the ocean’s movements, and the behavior of sea life – it’s damn hot if you ask me.
Dating a surfer is sure to get you off that couch too. They enjoy all sorts of outdoor activities (besides surfing). The two of you can enjoy long beach walks, volleyball, swimming, or snorkeling, leaving you both recharged and beaming.
3. Carefree Attitude
Surfers are some of the most laid-back and carefree people. I mean, I get it: the wind in your hair, the sun kissing your skin, and the immediate sense of freedom and adventure when you hit a wave – it’s like meditation for the soul.
Their wide grins and mellow vibes are scientifically proven, stating that their “surf-stoked” happiness comes from a chemical cocktail triggered by negatively charged ions around turbulent water.
Scientists are convinced that the abundance of negative ions positively affects a person’s mood by increasing blood flow and oxygen circulation and triggering the release of endorphins and serotonin, “happy hormones.”
4. Failure Isn’t An Issue
Surfers know they will fail and understand the sport is all about trial and error. There are waves that they simply won’t catch, and a solid wipeout is bound to happen again, even for professionals.
But surfers are resilient and get right back up. Surfers learn from their mistakes and use them to improve. This is a great quality for any relationship. It teaches them patience and persistence, even when it seems impossible.
What Is It Like Dating A Surfer?
Dating a surfer is like hitting the jackpot for some but sharing your partner with the ocean for the most part of your relationship may feel like a dealbreaker for others. Here’s what it’s REALLY like dating someone passionate about surfing.
The Joys Of Dating A Surfer
You do not have to be a surfing enthusiast to date one, but you do need to love the ocean and the outdoors. Here are a few things to look forwards to when dating a surfer:
- Full days basking in the sun. My favorite part is snuggling up on a towel after a stroll on the beach and soaking in the breathtaking surrounding, and of course, my hunk owning those waves.
- Photos, lots of photos. Surfers love having pictures taken of them riding the waves, and they usually won’t mind snapping a few for you after getting out of the water.
- Surfers know all the best holiday spots, and they are keen to explore them to catch the best waves. Most of these spots are untouched swathes of paradise, boasting pristine beaches, beautiful waters, and breathtaking sunsets – the most enviable Instagram moments.
- Excellent relationship qualities. Surfers are brave, patient, laid-back, passionate, and independent. They also tend to be really low-maintenance, practically living in their boardie’s. What more do you want in a relationship?
Brace Yourself for Some Drawbacks or Challenges
From early morning commitments to unpredictable schedules and danger factors, there are several challenges you will face when dating a surfer:
- Say goodbye to late-morning cuddles. Your late-morning lie-ins are something of a distant memory when dating a surfer. A surfer’s alarm runs with the tide; brace yourself for 5 am alarms when the surf is right.
- Brace yourself for unpredictable schedules. A surfer’s life is loosely organized, impulsive, and mostly planned around the weather and tide. Get used to canceling date night or lunch with friends if the waves are perfect.
- Potential danger and injuries: Reef cuts, scrapes, gashes, ear and staph infections, and bruises are part of the sport. I hope you can bear watching as your partner dives board-first into 10-15-20-foot roaring waves for a gnarly surf session, and all you can do is sit helplessly and watch, praying they come out ALIVE.
How To Navigate A Relationship With A Surfer
Dating a surfer is fun, invigorating, and exciting. You’ll have a partner that’s highly driven, easy-going, passionate, and with a deep love for nature. However, they generally revolve their life – job, living conditions, home, and holiday plans – around the sport.
You will need to fully embrace the “surfer lifestyle” for your relationship to work with your surf-obsessed partner. No, this doesn’t mean you need to become a surfer. Simply be flexible with your schedule and pay special attention to when your partner says the weather or surf will be bad. Jump on this golden opportunity and enjoy spending some time with your partner.
If you can, at least try surfing. It is fun and challenging and will give you a better understanding of your partner’s passion. If surfing isn’t for you, take a good book and show your partner some support.
Lastly, open and honest communication is key to a long, healthy relationship. Surfing might be your partner’s passion, but it’s vital that you also chase your dreams and get the needed support. Let babe know if you need a little more attention and quality time, and try to compromise in ways that will benefit you both.
Conclusion
Dating a surfer is a sure win; they are good-looking, laid-back, and love spending time on the beach. However, they shape their lives to the rhythm of the ocean, and the demand for their sport can take a toll on your relationship.
Embrace your partner’s unique qualities and appreciate rather than envy their extreme passion and dedication for surfing. With proper support, open communication, understanding, and compromise, you can have a passionate relationship with sandy toes and tons of salty kisses.
Luke is an avid athlete and the driving force behind Surfhungry, a vibrant online platform dedicated to sharing the joy and passion of surfing and water sports with enthusiasts around the world. With a deep-rooted love for the ocean and a lifelong commitment to riding waves, Luke’s journey as a surfer has inspired him to create a community where like-minded individuals can come together to celebrate their shared passion.
